Appreciate the helpers

Thoughtful patients should therefore, make it a point to express appreciation to the doctor's gatekeeper, as well as to the doctor. Acknowledge that they have demanding jobs. Not only will this brighten their day (which is, in large part, filled with 'unrewarding' tasks), it will also increase the likelihood of their going the 'extra mile' for you when you need their services.

Doctor-Staff

Choosing the right doctor is a little like choosing the right life partner! Although it's true you're marrying only one person, all the in-laws come along as part of the package. Similarly, when you select a primary care physician, you automatically select his staff as well, so make sure you like them, as they will play an important role in your interactions with the doctor! The personality of the staff is often very similar to that of the doctor, and friendly, caring and competent physicians tend to hire friendly, caring and competent employees.